Not all advice is good advice—especially when it comes to fitness. If you're hearing mixed opinions from family or friends, know this: personal training is a domain-specific skill. In Newark, DE, our certified coaches at Hardbat Athletics help you separate fact from fiction so you can focus on real progress.
I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but I have this conversation a lot.
Advice is domain-specific.
Your mom might know just the right thing to say when you need relationship advice. That doesn’t mean she should have an opinion about your nutrition, or that you should listen to it.
People generally mean well. And by “people,” I mean family, friends, and those you’ve built some kind of relationship with.
I highly doubt your mom is trying to sabotage your efforts to get healthier. But people who are otherwise intelligent and loving can also be wildly misinformed on topics outside their scope.
So while they might have your best interest at heart, when they say things like, “Lifting weights will make you bulky, you shouldn’t do that,” it’s important that you have the discernment to separate how much this person cares about you from how little they know about health and fitness.
I don’t ask my therapist how to grow my business. That’s not what she’s there for.
Trying to improve your health already comes with its own challenges. Don’t let outside voices make it harder.
If you’ve tried a few times to get someone on board and it always ends in frustration, that’s your cue to draw a line.
Something simple like, “Hey, can we not talk about my fitness stuff? I’d really appreciate that,” gets the point across without turning it into a big thing.
This is your journey. You can invite and uninvite anyone at any time to improve your odds of reaching your goals.
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